What a Difference A Year Makes

One year ago today I posted this. It was such a scary time for our family and I am so glad to have it behind us. 

Last week Cameron reminded me that it has been a year since he had Guiliian Barre' and he knew this because he remember having to miss his Valentine Party at school.  I still can't believe that Cam had to go through that, it makes me sad if I think about it too much.  I do know though that he was so very blessed and has continued to be blessed in his recovery over the past year.  Looking back and seeing all of the blessings that our whole family recieved is overwhelming and so humbling.  It's easy to forget how much the Lord loves us and we too easily take our life and our health for granted.  It's been good for us to remember just how blessed we are and then Thank our Father in heaven for all of those blessings. 

(THEN)

(NOW)

4 hours and a hundred kisses

Oh my how we LOVE this baby girl!  She is so SUPER SWEET! 

She is even sweeter when she sleeps for four whole hours at night!  She usually is every two hours on the dot but last night she was being extra sweet. 

I love her face in the bottom picture!  It looks like she is laughing.  I guess I would be to if Hayden were holding me.  Hayders doesn't want to hold her much, he really just likes to tell her he loves her and gives her a hundred kisses a day. 

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!!!!!

NOISE

In common use, the word noise means any unwanted sound.


It seems to me that since I have had the baby the NOISE level in our house has gone up.

WAY UP!!!!!!!

I can't wait for summer so I can send them all outside. 

Can't get enough

This baby is sooooo sweet. We are loving every minute of her.

Hayden is soooo sweet too.
In this picture he was fixing her some food!

Introducing..........

Clara Jean

7lbs 19in

February 3, 2010

She really is a girl!!!  And I am still in shock!Everything went really perfect and now we have a perfect, beautiful baby girl.  He brothers are completely smitten with her and can't get over how small she is.  Colby and Cameron love to hold her and Hayden so far loves her and shares all of his things with her even his most prized possession, his "nigh-nigh" (blanket). 
We came home yesterday and after a very long and sleepless first night with a new born we are adjusting to our new addition and all that comes with her! 
Grandma and Grandpa Heap are here and what a blessing they are, I don't know how I will manage when they leave. 
Seeing pink things around the house is so fun! 
Can you believe I really have a girl??
I can't. 
But I do.....................!!!!!!!!!!

Lonnnnng Weekend!

This past weekend was a BIG one for the Davis family. Mark's sister Kristy got married and the celebration lasted for four days!! Family arrived starting on Thursday and we started the party on Friday. The cousins were so excited too see each other. Since the cousins live in AZ they were really excited to play in the snow. Their new Uncle Jordan was excited right along with them and threw snowballs and built snow forts to their hearts content!

Saturday was two BIG days in one.
It was BIRTHDAY day for Colby and I and wedding reception/dinner day for Kristy & Jordan.
After a small family party we headed to Salt Lake for the wedding part of our day. Grandpa called Colby up during the dinner and everyone sang Happy Birthday to him. Thankfully I was spared from being sung to in front of all those people!!
The reception/dinner was nice....we made it through, me & my sis-in-law Julie in our very prego conditions, (Julie is due any time now and really should not have flown up here at all!) and all six crazy, loud kids.

Sunday was another get together day for our family and Jordan's family who were all here from Virginia.

Monday was finally the actual wedding at the Salt Lake Temple, followed by lunch at the Lion House.
Again we made it through and for me anyway will live another day or two before having a baby. Julie I'm not so sure though, hopefully she made the flight home ok!!

There are lots of pictures but I'm not so sure I will get around to blogging again before the baby comes!

Hayden & Caroline
the 2 year olds!

Snow Fort Builders

Handsome Boys

Do all 6 year olds have a hard time holding still and acting normal????

And do all 2 year olds have to do everything for themselves??
Seriously, he doesn't want help doing anything but usually ends up frustrated and crying because he do what he is trying to do!

This is one COOL 9 year old!

The Newlyweds

photo courtesy of Colby

Trying to get six hungry, cold kids to sit for a picture is not easy!

Cam and Jake had a blast taking pictures of each other and everything else they thought was cool. I had some pretty random pictures thanks to Cam!

Finally some yummy dessert to end the day!

It's so pretty around here today

I really can't complain about the view from my house.
It's gorgeous today.
I hope it lasts for awhile.

OCD

I am going to admit publicly, maybe for the first time, that I have an OCD with cleaning my house. Yes I Do.
I will admit though that I have a Monica closet and a couple of drawers, who doesn't right? Please tell me you all do???

Right now though my drive to have everything clean is in HIGH GEAR with our impending arrival only 10 days away.
My only problem right now with keeping up with my OCD is one BIG round obstacle that gets in my way. I just can't physically do all the things that need to be done. I actually took a nap today after church instead of clean up after the morning and lunch rushes. I never do that!!
But it gave me an idea. Not really a new idea to most people nor to me either, but one that I don't use as much as I should.
Wanna hear it?
LET YOUR KIDS AND YOUR HUSBAND CLEAN UP AFTER THEMSELVES!!!!!
Isn't it a great idea? If there is anytime in my life when I even have a good reason for making them clean up after themselves it is now.

So I spent the rest of the day trying to convince myself to only clean up after myself. That's why, after searching the house for things I got out and could clean up, just to satisfy my OCD; I am here blogging instead of sweeping the floor and doing the dishes. I'm gonna let the boys do it!
My kids don't have school tomorrow, and having all the kids home all day means having LOTS of messes all day. I would usually spend the whole day cleaning up after them and usually not really mind doing it. But tomorrow, I QUIT! I may have to lock myself in my room and start reading a book, or maybe find somewhere to go because it will be hard for me, but really I QUIT!!
Ok, now that I have admitted my OCD and revealed my plan, please wish me luck. If I can even get through one whole day that's all I ask of myself. And it will be good for my boys to see how much they really can do. Won't it??


Now that I got that off my chest, here are some pictures from our weekend.

Colby earned his Wolf badge at Pack Meeting on Thursday and since he is 9 now will be going on to Bears. (moms get a pin too, that's what Colby is pinning on me)
YEAH COLBY!!!
We did end up having to go bowling for Colby's party. Not only were the movie times messed up, but the weather ended up being really nasty and I am SO grateful that I didn't try driving to Park City. All of the kids agreed that bowling was just as fun, so I think it was all a success and I am just happy to have it over with! Staying here also meant that Hayden got to come bowling with us. He is actually really good at the bowling alley and loved every minute of being with the big kids!

Colby loves Football and pink. He wanted pink football cupcakes. He told me that I should be happy because all he wants for his birthday is football cards so I won't have to spend too much money! Thanks Colby!

After Mark snow blowed the driveway yesterday it was perfect for sledding on. Even Hayden got in on the action. His only problem was that he thought he could stand up on the sled like his brothers. Thankfully his head landed in the snow when he crashed!

Are these boys CUTE or what!!!
I can't imagine a sister in the next picture.

After really not having much snow at all, the last storm got brought us a little more of a winter that we are used to. Still not as much snow as in years past but enough that it will be around until mid-March.

one, two, three boys

 Just call him "Toothless". 
I love the freckles too,

and the blonde hair that I thought would have turned brown by now.

 Hayden is the worlds greatest "copy cat".  This is him doing an impression of our friend Mike! 
If anyone is in need of a laugh or a smile, just stop by our house and talk to Hayden for a few minutes.  He is sure to brighten your day!

This kid is going to be 9 years old next week.  How does that happen?  Nine years??
Since his Aunt is getting married on his birthday we are celebrating today.  He has invited a couple of friends to go to Park City and see the movie Tooth Fairy.  One problem that he doesn't know about yet is that the movies in Park City are all messed up because of the Sundance Film Festival that started yesterday so they are not showing Tooth Fairy tonight.  He is going to be so bummed.  Hopefully I can reserve a couple of lanes at the bowling alley instead and he will just have to be OK with that!

LOW KEY

I woke up this morning determined to have a "low key" day.
To me "low key" means staying home all day and really not doing much. I was actually trying to convince myself that it would be ok to watch tv and read books all day!
The reason for my "low key" day was because the last few days I have WAY over worked myself. My back is killing me, contractions are much more frequent and I am a whole lot more GRUMPY with my family than I should be because I'm tired and worn out.
So.... "low key" was my mission.

Did it happen???

Lets see.

-Got the kids off to school
-got Hayden settled with Chocolate milk and Sesame Street
-sat down to watch The Today Show myself
-couldn't quit thinking about how badly the floor needed to be swept and the morning dishes cleaned up, so I did those things.
-Hayden loses interest in cartoons and wants to go down stairs and get some race cars.
-Play race cars and pet shop with Hayden for awhile, but got to watch the Today Show at the same time!
-remembered that I needed to run a couple of errands.
-Got Hayden and myself dressed, got the things ready that I needed to take with me on my errands
-went out in the cold, windy, snowy day and got errands run
-came home and put pj's back on, Hayden was ready for more cartoons.
-decided to clean and organize the DVD shelves, got to watch TV while I did though.
-Hayden wanted me to watch Dora with him, so I made a couple of phone calls while I sat with him
-LUNCH TIME
-remembered that Cameron had asked for me to make him some hard boiled eggs and chocolate chip cookies, so started making both.
-Got Hayden fed.
-It's finally 1:00pm time for Hayden's nap. He likes me to sit on the chair in his room and sing to him at nap time. I think I fell asleep before he did. Slept in the BIG comfy chair for about an hour!!
-Woke up and remembered that I still needed to make another phone call.
-Still tired I sat down to watch TV and finish sewing on the baby blanket I am making.
-Heard Hayden starting to wake up after only about 30 after sitting down.
-Got up and started cooking the chicken for dinner and finished the cookies I had already started.
-Hayden was really ready to get out of bed
-Time for Colb and Cam to be home from school. Cam walks in the door and says "mom, why are you still in your pajamas? didn't you do anything today?"
-Haman stop by to borrow and ice breaker thing and Kathy asks me if I'm ok! I guess I really must look awfully tired or something!! At least I cam blame it on being so prego!
-Start the afterschool, homework and chores battle.
-start on dinner
-listen to my kids and four other neighborhood kids discuss the events of the day and their favorite things on Wizard 101, the hot new game!
-6:00 pm, send kids home, get my kids to eat dinner
-6:45 pm. Hayden and Cameron desperately need a hair cut and I am actually in the mood to give them one so we start the messy, dreded process.
-7:30pm finally done with hair cuts and baths. Time to watch the last 30 minutes of American Idol before starting bedtime routines
-8:00pm dad finally arrives home from a LONG day at work.
-Poor dad is tired and hungry and mom is tired and miserable and the kids don't want to go to bed!
-While dad puts Hayden to bed I decide that I really need to do the dishes since I will be gone from home most of the day tomorrow and I know I won't be able to sleep if I don't do them.
-Get dishes done in time to watch the last 30 minutes of Biggest Looser.
-Clean up all the toys that the boys missed and look forward to climing into my bed.
-Sit down of the edge of the bed and my brain keeps telling me I need to blog
-9:45pm and here I am.

Phew.
That was quite a list for a "low key" day. I should write down my list on a "normal day", I might just amaze myself at all the things I actually do accomplish.
Why is is that I can't just relax and do nothing? I try, but I really can't.
The two days spent in the hospital after having a baby are about the only time in my life when I actaully do nothing!!!!
Only 15 more days to go.

Here is what these two boys looked like yesterday before their haircuts.
Anytime someone is playing Guitar Hero Hayden gets his guitar and plays along too!!

Cameron's hair was really really long. His hair cut isn't finished yet in this picture, I just thought he looked pretty cute with his bangs this way! When he finally was finished he wouldn't let me get a picture.

Mr. Hayden can't say "cheese" for a picture with his eyes open!! I really debated cutting his hair because I liked that it was long and kept his head a little warmer in the winter. But the desire for clean cut hair won out. I think he looks so much older with it cut.

Here is what Colby has been up to.
Jr. Jazz started a couple of weeks ago and Colb has a game every Wednesday night through the end of February.
He LOVES IT!!

does anyone else hate that there is no spell check on blogger? I don't understand why not. Sorry.

Getting the PINK ready!

Three weeks from tomorrow, February 4th, this baby is scheduled to make her debut!
Will it really be a girl?
I am in denial.

But just in case it really is a girl I am LOVING all the pink I have around my house these days!

I think that this BIG guy is the reason this pregnancy has flow by for me. He definitely keeps me busy/exhausted everyday.
Don't you love the bow?

Clothes are washed, folded and put away just waiting for the baby!

Since I am still in denial that this baby is a girl I couldn't wrap my head around having "accessories" like head bands and bows. But after a trip to AZ and seeing/making bows with Kacy I got pretty excited and started making some of my own. My boys even helped, wish I had a picture of them.

These are just a few of the AWESOME things that my mom has made for the baby. I can't wait to see the blessing dress when it is finished and another blanket too! She really should hire out and make stuff for people. Maybe she will when her own grand kids slow down a little! 4 baby girls in less than a year will keep a Grandma busy!


Along with getting baby things ready, Mark has very graciously fed my "nesting" bug and painted the master bedroom and bathroom, bought some shelves, window treatments, new bedding and whatever else I have said we "need" before the baby comes! Now all I need is the floors and bathrooms steam cleaned and the house will feel "ready" for baby!

After a pedicure and a trip to the salon for my hair I will feel ready.

Just about 4 weeks until this baby is due only I feel like she could come any minute. I feel huge and awkward and uncomfortable and I can't sleep or bend over and picking up my 40lb 2 year old is quite a strain! Would it be to much to ask that just this once I have a baby that decides to come a little early? Despite all of the discomfort of the last month of pregnancy, I do enjoy being pregnant, knowing the baby is safe inside and feeling her move around is such a miracle that I am very blessed to be a part of.
Another HUGE blessing that I really don't verbally recognize often enough is my FABULOUS husband. He is a life saver, seriously he is. I don't have to ask him to help with the kids he just does it and he is so good at it. Especially with Hayden. Our favorite time of day is when Dad comes home from work. Even though Hayden acts like a major Momma's Boy, he really does love being with his dad. Mark even went along with my "nesting" project of getting our bedroom painted and decorated this last weekend. I did as much of the painting and taping as I could but Mark with the help of our friends the Hamans did 99% of the painting. It feels so good to have it done. THANK YOU SO MUCH MARK!

Not to ramble on about how great my husband is, but I really don't know what I would do without him. It really sucks living so far away from my mom, especially right now when I could really use her help, or just her company, but Mark does a great job of calling me during the day and getting us out of the house and keeping the kids entertained, and on and on.... He is also doing a pretty dang good job of putting up with me and my pregnancy mood swings. Without knowing he is doing it he is filling in where my mom would. I couldn't ask for more.

Thankfully we haven't had to deal with too much snow yet this winter. But we do have enough that he kids have been able to use their new sleds.

Cameron lost another tooth! That makes for three lost in a month. He has the best "toothless grin", I really need a picture!

Colby played his first Jr. Jazz game last night. He was SO darn excited and was quite picky about which number he has on his jersey. I think the got #9. I am still amazed at his interest in sports. He looks at ESPN.com multiple times a day and is just sure that he knows all there is to know about football.

Hayden (sorry no picture) is so stinkin cute. He kills me and makes my day at the same time. Right now he loves to play with Play Dough, cook food in his microwave and watch Dora and Diego. I seriously love two year olds. Can he stay two forever?